Rabu, 08 Desember 2010

“When Coercion Fruitful Success”

In a Village, Bekasi district Buniseuri precisely Village lived a family whose life is affluent families have one child, named Asep Ali and he wanted to continue their education to higher levels of SMPN 1 Bekasi. Then Asep also requested permission from the mother to sign up to SMPN 1 Bekasi.
"My Mom asked for permission to apply to the junior high because the time for registration is on open" Asep said in a voice low.
"September is actually my mother wanted to send you away to boarding school because my mother was not much longer have the money, and normally boarding entrance fee is cheaper than the incoming junior"
"O Allah turns out my parents do not have much money and my suspicion is correct, this problem of cost". Said Asep in his heart, squeezing his fingers and ducked see the tip of your toes.
"I want to tell you first, listen ..."
"Many parents who send their children to religious schools because the values their children are not enough to enter junior high, consequently, a boarding school where students second class citizens, in vain ... Try to imagine how the quality of Asep buya, religious teachers and preachers madrassa graduates in the future, how they will be able to lead the faithful that the more intelligent and critical? How the fate of Muslims later? "
Asep face inflamed forehead wrinkled and her feelings started bad because her mother did not understand the direction this conversation.
Asep's mother was raised with a strong religious background. His father or grandfather who Asep Asep call "To the Mansour" is a person who studied directly Alim Sheikh Sulaiman Rusly. At the beginning of the twentieth century Sheikh Sulaiman Rusly studied to Mecca under the care of famous scholars such as Sheikh Sayid El-Yemen.
"September should you in boarding school alone," says his mother.
"But Mom, I'm not gifted with religious knowledge I want to be a journalist and computer expert,"
"Being a religious leader is more precious than a journalist, son"
"But I do not want ..."
"You're a diligent and talented. You will become a great leader of people, let alone you have the blood of scholars from both your grandfather. "
"But I do not want to."
"Just your mother is not willing to enter junior high."
"But ,,,,,," But ... ..." But ... .. "
After a long dispute, and discussion is not endless. Their minds are clear opposite, and Asep was on the losing side. Asep also obey what his mother said with a half-hearted decision, two days later he and his father went to a village in East Java district of Purworejo precisely to register and once entered boarding school named Darussalam.Sebelum leave the house, Asep kissed his mother's hand and then he asked for prayer and ask forgiveness for his mother then ran head kesalahannya.Tangan Asep. From behind his glasses Asep see clear fluid coming out of her mother's eyes. Then her mother told "Good on ya, son of Mrs. Kampung believe this trip to defend the religion. Learning science with religion is jihad in the way of Allah Almighty, "said the tough-looking beliau.Wajahnya tegarkan.
Then Asep with his father boarded a small bus-fart fart harmony which crawls tens rise located in Bekasi, after five hours later Asep boarded the bus and get off at the terminal Harjamukti his father because his first ride the bus only until the terminal, then Asep and his father rose again conditioned bus majoring in East Java, Banyuwangi, exactly, on the way to Banyuwangi in East Java, Asep and his father spent a half day in because the cars they ride broke down on the road, Banyuwangi father when he got in the station asked the driver Asep public transportation,
"Assalamualaikum Pak passenger asked if the boarding school where Darussalam ride public transportation?"
"Waalaikumussalam warohmatullahi wabarokatuh father would send their children to boarding school in the lodge," asked the driver pack.
"Yes sir"
"If schools can ride public transportation Darussalam father of two of four public transportation pass into the boarding school Darussalam" said the driver pack politely.
"Thanks for the explanation, yes sir"
"Same-same"
Then Asep and his father ride public transportation are two of four and after ten minutes saw the boarding school sepanduk Darussalam then Asep with his father off at the junction Darussalam Islamic boarding schools and at the beginning of the boarding school entrance road sign reads Ahlan Darussalam wasahlan fi Ma'had Darussalam - Welcome to Pondok Darussalam Asep and his father then go directly to register and registration space. Then they rest for a while and suddenly heard the announcement with a loud voice of a religious teacher: "Gentlemen of mothers and guests guest cottage Darussalam a happy, welcome to the cottage Darussalam. Today I will accompany you all to look at various angles around the boarding school which covers about ten acres Darussalam, do not be afraid we will not be around all, just an important-the importance of it. Who wants to go on tour please gather again in this room fifteen minutes.
"Boarding Darussalam education system has 24 hours. The goal is to produce a tough man. "Ustadz opened that morning tour with a fluent.
Then they were taken around to the outposts cabin Darussalam ranging from dormitories, libraries, halls, mosques, minarets and mosques there besides others. After that they rest in rooms that have been prepared by the committee receiving new students. After the break Asep wake up at four to study at night because he took a tour around the cabin after studying for half an hour Fajr Adhan was resounding and Asep wake his father who was sleeping next to her after that he went into the bathroom for ablution water mengamabil with his father and straight to the mosque for Fajr prayer in congregation then Asep shower and get ready for the test, and results are received in podok Darussalam Alhamdulillah, and his father came home leave Asep in the lodge. In the evening was the introduction and reading qonun (rules), then after that Asep and friends entered the room to sleep.
In the early morning precisely at 3:30 Asep and other friends have been in the wake Tahajud to perform their prayers, and then after prayers tahajud Asep and friends are required to read Al-Quran by Kismul Amni - part of security while waiting for Fajr prayer. And after praying Fajr Asep and his friends are given the Arabic vocabulary by Ustadz Haris and vocabulary of the first Asep hear is Milaqotun which means spoon and Shohnun which means the dishes later after receiving a vocabulary Asep and his friends to the dormitory to take a shower and the preparations to the orientation students and Asep must follow these MOS event until 16.00 hours and after that Asep and his friends are given time to rest and then Asep, Atang, Reyhan, Hilmi and Anhar buy chicken noodles in the cafeteria because his stomach had read from earlier Dzuhur.kemudian after eating chicken noodles in the cafeteria five of them to my room to talk because Asep and his new friends do not know much then Asep, Atang, Reyhan, Hilmi and Anhar chat Ngalor ngidul not felt by them that at 17.00 should be already in the mosque for the reading of Al -Ma 'tsurat together, then they shower and go to the mosque to be late. Arriving at the mosque Asep, Atang, Reyhan, Hilmi and Anhar diberdirikan by young men black suit, berkopiah and a green prayer rug draped over his left shoulder chest pinned round shiny silver pin that read kismul Amni - the security, if this is a Sheriff he's a cowboy movie hard-faced with his gun cocked ready to face him calmly asked five of them
"Why are you late?" Said kismul Amni
"That was ... .. was discharged a shower first," said the five of them with a voice stammering
Then he was sent to five of them to hold the ears of friends there next to them and pinching until the red and after that they all five in order to write the Surat Al-Ikhlas 3 times. then in the hearts of this people Asep bergerutu short stature, stocky, like a boxing champion Mike Tyson and his eyes did not pierce them off like a master hunter. Then the five of them to read Al-Matsurat
ogether, after which they joined five other friends.
Over the past seven days, Asep and his friends at MOS, now it's time for them to receive lessons from the first hut Darussalam and lessons on this day are: Arabic, English, mathematics and biology. All of a sudden entrance of a young man was thin and say Manijtahada Hashola while pointing a finger straight in the air his voice booming, his eyes glittering stab them one by one. Her face was serious, his eyebrows nearly met and muscle exertion molar stick up as if it to conquer a piece of their soul Manijtahada Hashola foreign word is a powerful magic spells work. With a radiant face and smile crossed ten inches in wajahnya.Setiap he screamed, they barked back with the same word, Manijtahada Hashola magical incantations in Arabic it means tough "Who is serious then he will succeed!" And men This is Ustadz Huda Asep homeroom. After the lesson the next lesson is completed, the Arabic language is English and is not presumed after five minutes Ustadz Huda leave their classroom one oval-faced man, blond and beefy write a word on the blackboard that reads " No gain without pain "Asep and his friends were surprised at the class because he only wrote that sentence and then they sent them to memorize the sentence and then writing back and they removed all the tests one by one after testing all the students she started meperkenalkan himself and his name is Mr. . Opik and told it means writing that was "not going to work without sacrifice" She said she told the students write the meaning in his notebook. Does not feel the day in boarding school learning pertamapun Darussalam finished, then Asep along with four friends namely, Atang, Reyhan, Hilmi and Anhar go kesebuah tower near the mosque to do the punishment given by the security.
Since punished by kismul Amni - Asep security section, Atang, Reyhan, Hilmi and Anhar more often get together and learn together in the tower, if they are tired of their learning about dreams, like a tower, their dream of soaring high, and they want to reach the tops of their dreams later. One day they were gathered in the tower and then the five of them to imagine his dreams, looking into the blue sky and then Asep said to Atang.
"Look at that cloud resembles pliers country map of England." Pointing to the clouds that in imagined by Asep.
"It's not a British subject but Saudi Arabia." Countered Atang
"When I grow up I want to go to England and study there, according to what I dream this dream ince." Asep said, then said Reyhan
"Look at that cloud my friends like a map of Germany." Said Anhar with an enthusiastic face.
"That's not Germany, but the Indonesian state har." Hilmi Reply
"But ... ... ... .... I saw the cloud-shaped map of Germany." Said Anhar not want to lose.
After a long berbatahan each other they are dreaming their dreams of each, after which they returned to the dorm to shower and after bath they went to the mosque to read Al-Matsurat now they are afraid to lounge late one minute inattentive because they will get the punishment from the security department, after reading the Al-matsurat Atang from Bandung on the call to the office of parenting, not long after Atang out with beaming faces and joyful notes were Atang receive scraps from her parents in Bandung. Atangpun permission to the dormitory to save weselnya in the room after it Atang save money orders back to the mosque and then whispered in her ear and Asep Anhar
"Later into my room, I have susuatu to invite you and Reyhan Hilmi." Said Atang with little scared because there is the security that saw three of them pembicaraaan.
"God willing." Said the two of them simultaneously.
Then Asep and Anhar notify Hilmi.Setelah Reyhan and four of them home from the mosque toward the room and Atang Atang also notes that recently opened in terimanaya earlier and give a little food to the four of them and they were eating together in a room Atang after eating cake who has given them four of them Atang into the kitchen to take food, and eating together in the main room dormitory after dinner together, the five of them to the mosque to perform prayers in congregation Isha Isha prayer while waiting for their five sends mebicarakan joking about the funny sister and her class humorous, and after coming other friends they marched toward the shaft at the front, they reverberate Adzanpun prayers in congregation and then after prayers in congregation KHAchidin Noor. Darussalam MA pesantren leaders to provide guidance on Tausyiyah or in his briefing that he invites the santrinya to play ball in big field on Sunday. The santripun cheered and among them five of the most enthusiastic is Hilmi because his hobby is football. Then Tausyiah else in the End with Mushofahah means shaking hands greeting between the cleric with his disciples.
Day after day the students go through and finally arrived on Sunday, early in the morning precisely at 5:30 KHAchidin keasrama Noor came to invite the santrinya play ball, then all the religious teachers and the boarding school santrinya Darussalam football pitch walk to their arrival in the field warming first and led by a young man who sentenced Asep along with four of his friends, his name is Beni chairman of the discipline in the boarding school Darussalam, after heating them in for two teams by Kiai Achidin and turns along Hilmi Asep however, the opponent they face Beni is chairman of the safety and Kiai Achidin opponent after the whistle sounded the Kiai Achidin striker dribbled straight toward the goal Asep and a guard on the team's goal is to Asep Asep own later scholars outside the box finalty Achidin make preparations will fire the ball towards goal and Asep Asep any try to catch it and eventually the ball can not be captured because the kick was so sped towards goal Asep score was changed to 1-0 and then heard rumors sound from the left goalpost Asep "This name is Ronaldo memorize the Koran!" and it turns out people who talk so it is being Anhar not to play ball because of illness diai only watch at the edge of the goal Asep. The position was 1-0 until the end of the game and the winner is the team of scholars Achidin Noor.
Month after month continued in the past Asep and finally reached the hut Darussalam arrival of the British embassy later Mr.opik call Asep to welcome the ambassador to the student speakers of English as famous Asep smart in classes in English and her English pronunciation is very good for the future Asep-day workout in front of Atang, Anhar, Hilmi and Reyhan so well later in front of the ambassador and his time to stay one more day later on the call by Asep Mr.Opik to the speech test and the results were good after that Mr.opik Alhamdulillah notice,
"Just a sense of confidence you are not yet present in you, and you should exercise more often gave a speech in front of your friends," says Mr.Opik
"Yes sir I will be more frequent exercise." He replied
Then Asep out and gather more friends and then he stood in front of his friends, and make a speech like a Sukarno's good to hear her voice as the English asli.Setelah speech he returned to the dorm to rest because tomorrow she has to perform in front of the Ambassador Great Britain. In the dark Asep Fajr wake up and immediately perform ablutions for prayer and at the end of Tahajud Asep Asep tahajudnya prayed on it easy in his speech, at nine o'clock ambassador comes with just the clothes that politely invite the ambassador Huda cleric sat in the chair Asep at the front then on the call by the announcer to give speeches in English and Asep also took the title "Recaiting Al Basmalah" after completion of English speech Asep in the offer to lecture in English by Mr. George, and Asep did not reject it.
Time feels like a pickaxe that suck the days Asep with fast, has nearly half a year in boarding school Asep Darussalam and during this cottage Darussalam really do not give time to lounge Asep inattentive. It all happened fast, solid, tight. And finally confronted Asep in Semester Final Examination premises before the end of semester exams Achidin kiai-santrinya collect all the students in the Hall and provide direction at the same time opening weekend at the cottage Darussalam replay after giving a direction later scholars Achidin opening week semester final test which lasted for two weeks, week The first is a test cottage containing the oral and practical exams while, the second week is the writing exam. Kiai Kemudain Achidin replications were opened last week at the cottage with a symbolic vote Darussalam large Goong in at as much as two times, after that Kiai Achidin pray "Rabbii jidnii ilman warzuknii fahman" and closed with a greeting. After the opening weekend cottage Darussalam replications during two week santriwatinya dapan the santriwan and no extracurricular activities and in the compulsory to carry books everywhere except into the bath room. After that Asep, Atang, Anhar, Hilmi and Reyhan they often gather at the tower near the mosque to study together after over two exams on Sunday and santrwati santriwan live by now it's time to find out who the overall winner who will get the money, then Ustadz Zakaria went up the stage and start a conversation,
"Assalamualaikum first of all let us pray toward our gratitude to God for blessing God's final exam this semester is finished, do not forget the blessings and greetings may still shed limpahkan to our prophet of Islam leader umta ie Muhammad SAW. My establishment here I will announce the overall winner and he was selected as the overall champion is entitled to get money from the cottage Darussalam, and eventually champions fell to Ukhtii Azkiyatul Fajrin Mojokerto santriwati origin of Central Java to the name on the call is expected to climb onto the stage. " Ustadz said Zakaria. And suddenly someone who wore a dark blue robe paired with a white scarf up the stage and received an envelope from Kiai Achidin Noor, MA. And it turns out Asep terbengong see a similar figure Fajrin Azkiyatul a famous Indonesian artist's call him the Zaskia Adya Mecca. After that five of them looking for each other Azki attention, never a day when they want to go to the mosque they walked past the women's dormitory and at that time was Azki picket outside the dorm he was then Asep smiled as he glanced toward Azki while Azkipun replied with a smile Asep timidly afraid of getting caught by the guardian dormitory.
Year after year, month after month, day after day, Asep live and spend their time while in the hut with a variety of activities both with four friends there, they like the same boat, because they live together year after year, after having it all now it's time to Imtihan Akbar, which means it is the Big Exam why say so, because this test is a test in which all sixth-grade graduation test will be at least from Pondok Darussalam and soalnyapun from start them inside the cottage premises Darussalam until sixth grade, prior to the exam kiai Achidin Noor collect students sixth-grade students in the hall later scholars Achidin forward to the podium and said.
"At this time you will be prepared for the exam Darussalam graduation from the cottage, and I am supported by other Ustadz will mempasilitasi you to learn and from tomorrow you will not learn in class but, you learn in this hall in this hall you discussion, sleep study and to prayer still go to the mosque for a month and you will be led by the cleric, the senior cleric. "
Later scholars arahannnya Achidin close with prayer "Allohumma zidna ilman warzuqna fahman" ... the Lord add our knowledge and understanding bestowed to us ... "
After that Ustadz Huda forward to the podium and announced the groups studied for the Hall and Asep get a study group with five people from other classes, Asep given lots right on the corner of the west hall. In this they will spend lots of time during the next month. Hall is constantly ringing with the sound of hundreds of people who learn to face the great test, beats life in this hall is really 24 hours. There is a learning day and night sleep but there is also the opposite is more like studying night and day sleep. What is clear, they are forced to learn. Day after day passed Asep with great struggle that was so great to stay one more day on this last day Asep not opened the book but he is calm down for oral exams.
Exam on the first day of oral exams dalah Arabiyah "please," Huda ustadz laws when Asep knock room oral exam, questions put ustadz Huda more leads to a science for example, "try to mention a complete sentence, the Arabic and describe the functions and procedures of that sentence! "globally Asep can answer but, once entered into detailed and concrete examples Asep struggled to force his mind to work hard. After ten days of oral exams finish next exam is written test exam duration is only six days, but since then Asep learn more spirit again because he wanted a quick pass from the cabin Darussalam, after passing the written exam five days now it's time to test lessons fun Asep namely English, if some previous exams passed with a disappointing but Asep English exam this gives optimism because, lessons Asep love and always get good grades, after the bell rang then Asep submit the answer sheet to the Supervisor, and Asep feel satisfied and at ease because he felt did the best, trying to do above average business of others, have been praying and bertawakkal.
On the next day was the announcement and for students who passed were allowed to go home while Asep, Atang, Anhar, Hilmi and Reyhan pass then they say goodbye to the cleric and his younger siblings class, Asep also to the airport because he won a scholarship to study in England Mr.Geoge ambassador from England, who at the time had come to the cabin while the Atang Darussalam Darussalam dispatched by the cottage to lecture at Al-Azhar hapalan cairo because he has a lot of Al-Quran and Arabic language is so eloquent.
After five years of college in England Asep sudden arrival of his old friend and Atang Anhar three of them chatted in Asep's house in the English used their imagination to paint the sky and release it soared off Asep see clouds like the UK, Atang see clouds like arab countries , Anhar strongly believe that the cloud was shaped German state, while Reyhan and Hilmi very nationalist state that shaped cloud Indonesia.Dulu they could only see the clouds but now they already exist in the countries in the saw through the clouds. After they prayed and endeavors, God has sent the clouds into the arms of their own, and words that motivate them are manijtahada hashola, anyone who seriously then he will succeed ...

Minggu, 20 Juni 2010

Strategi Belajar Efektif
Belajar adalah proses mengetahui bagaimana caranya membaca dan memahami data sehingga kamu bisa menggunakannya dalam kehidupan sehari-hari .
Keberhasila dalam belajar akan memunculkan kepuasaan diri dan kesuksesan
Belajar akan terasa menyenangkan apabila kamu para remaja terutamanya mengetahui bagaimana caranya???? Tenang disini ada beberapa cara nya .Belajar hanya terasa berat apabila menemui hambatan-hambatan beljar dan tidak tahu bagaimana mengatasinya.Hambatan –hambatan dalam belajar itulah yang kerap menyebabkan kamu tidak mau belajar atau tidak bisa berkonsentrasi sehingga jadi Tu- La- Lit alias telat mikir
Denagn demikian buatlah strategi belajar yang efektif yang paling sesuai untukmu agar kamu dapat mengatasi hambatan-hambatan dalam belajar tersebut.
Tip’s-Tip’s belajar yang Efektif
1. Suasana hati. Ciptakan selalu mood yang positif untuk belajar .ini bisa dilakukan untuk menentukan waktu lingkungan,dan sikap pribadimu.
2. Pemahaman.Tandai informasi bahan pelajaran yang TIDAK kamu mengerti dalam satu unit .Fokuskan pada satu Unit tersebut atau pecahkan permasalahan dalam kelompok latihan bersam teman-teman.
3. Ulang. Setelah belajar satu unit, berhentilah dan ulang bahan dari unit tersebut dengan kata-kata yang kamu buat sendiri.
4. Telaah. Kembalilah kepada unit kamu yang tidak mengerti dan PELAJARI KEMBALI metri tersebut.Lihatlah Informasi yang terkait pada Artikel ,Buku teks,dan sumber lainnya ,dan diskusikan dengan teman atau Guru
5. Kembangkan Pada langkah ini ,tanyakan 3 persoalan berikut terhadap meteri yang telah kamu pelajari:
• Andaikan saya bertemu dengan penulis materi tersebut,pertanyaan atau kritik apa yang saya ajukan???
• Bagaimana saya bisa mengaplikasiakn materi tersebut ke dalam hal yang saya sukai???
• Bagaimana saya membuat Informasi ini menjadi menarik dan mudah di fahami oleh para siswa /mahasiswa lainnya???
6.Kembangkan dan Pelajari Kembali. Pelajari kembali materi pelajaran yang sudah di pelajari.Ingatlah strategi yang telah membantumu mengerti dan mengingat informasi .jadi terapkan stratei tersebut untuk cara belajar selanjutnya..
@ oleh :terbit arif maali (terbitarifmaali.blogspot.com)
Maksimalkan Percaya Diri(PeDe)
Apakah kamu pernah merasa takut untuk mengeluarkan pendapat ???atau merasa berat untuk tampil di depan Umum karena malu setengah mati??Kalau,Iya berarti ada masalah dengan rasa percaya dirimu.
Memiliki Rasa percaya diri alias Pede itu penting. Banyak ahli menilai bahwa Percaya diri itu merupakan factor penting yang menimbulkan perbedaan besar anatara sukses dan gagal untuk para remaja kali ini kita tidak mau kan jadi orang gak sukses maka inilah obatnya alias pencegahan agar menjadi orang yang sukses .kalau punya pede tinggi ,kita bisa mengembangkan potensi diri secara maksimal.Kita juga bisa berani angkat tangan di kelas untik bertanya.Tidak ada rasa takut untuk ikutan kursus baru atau sekedar gaul.
Percaya diri adlah bagian dari alam bawah sadar dantidak terpengaruh oleh argumentasi yang rasional,.Ia hanya terpengaruh oleh hal-hal yang rasional .Ia hanya terpengaruh oleh hal hal yang Emosional dan perasaan jadi,unruk membangun percaya diri di bangun alat yang sama ,yaitu Emosi ,perasaandan Imajinasi.Hal-hal posotif itulah yang akan meningkatkan rasa percaya diri ,demikian sebaliknya.
Jadi,mulailah bersikap positif dari diri sendiri dalam melakukannya dalam kehidupan sehari-hari.
@ sekarang para remaja simak dan baca baik –baik agar kamu pede ini adalah sebuah penelusuran yang dilakukan oleh seorang siswa terhadap apa yang dicarinya ternyata para pelajar umumnya terdapat tips-tips supaya kalian itu bisa percaya diri mudah-mudahan da manfaatnya ya
Biar kamu Pede
1. Bacalah potensi diri.segeralah lacak ,gali,dan eksploirasi potensi sukses yang ada pada diri kamu..bisa jadi sangat banyak potensi yang kamu milikitanpa disadari,sehingga tidak berhasil digali.
2. Kembangkan Nolai Positif.Jalan mencapai pede akan semakin cepat manakala kamu mengembangkan nikmat-nikmat positif pada diri sendiri.menurut Psikolog Robert Anthony,Ph.D.,salahsatu cara untuk mengembangkan nilai-nalai positif adalah dengan menghilangkan ungkapan-ungkapan yang mematikan dan menggatinya dengan ungkapan kreatif.Dia menganjurkan membuat peralihan bahasa yang sederhana yapi Efektif dari pernyataan Negatif ke pernyataan positif ,misalnya mengganti kata “saya tidak bisa “ menjadi “saya bisa”
3. Tolaklah Saran Negatif.Bisa jadi,tidak semua orang yang dapat memberikan sikap dan dukungan positif kepadamu .Sebagian orang bisa saja malah berfikiran negative terhadap kemampuan kita.Hal yang inilah tak jarang melunturkan percaya dirimu .dengan demikian,,mungkin ada baiknya jika kamu mengambil sedikit jarak sebagian mengambil jarak secara baik apabila ada pihak –pihak yang mencoba melunturkan rasa Pedemu.
4. Cari lingkungan optimis.Rasa percaya merupakan sikap “menular” Artinya jika kamu dikelilingi oleh orang –orang yang memiliki cara pandang positif bersemangat,optimisdan sebagainya,kamu memiliki kecenderungan untuk meniru sifat tertentu .karena itu ,carilah lingkungan yang memotivasi diri kamu untuk sukses .kita harus mulai senang bergaul dengan orang-orang yang mempunyai cita-cita untuk bangkit
5. Perkokoh Ibadah.Kepercayaan diri akan bertambah apabila memperkokoh ibadah dan doa,karena ibadah dan doa akan mengundang pertolongan Allah .semakin kokoh ibadah ,shalat,dan keyakinan akan pertolongan allah ,maka pertolongan Allah pun akan dating ,dan itu bisa meningkatkan rasa percaya diri kamu
Mungkin itu tips-tips nya para remaja mudah –mudahan ada manfaatnya dan jangan tergiur untuk menyimpang kepada penyimpangan social yang Negatif Karena itu bisa merusak moral dan Akhlak kita sebagai orang yang beriman mudah- mudahan setelah membaca secara teliti bacaan diatas ada manfaatnya dan bisa diterapkan dalam kehidupan sehari-hari
Bravo Pelajar Indonesia

By;Terbit Arif Maali kunjungi terus blog ini
(Arifmaali.blogspot.com)

Aktif di kelas
Sekarang bukan zamannya lagi untuk tidak Aktif di kelas alias pasif.karen asekarang sekolah memberikan penilaan terhada keikutsertaan aktif di kelas .Kalaupun nilai akademis kita bagus tapi tidak diyunjang oleh partisipasi kelas yang memadai bisa jadi nilai keseluruhan tidak akan sebaik apa yang diharapkan
Nah,sekarang coba tengok lagi apa yang membuat kita merasa berat untuk Aktif,Umumnya ,Penyebab rasa Pasif adalah Malu yang timbul karena tak terbiasa untuk mengungkapkan pendapat secara langsung.Tapi tenang aja para remaja ada solusinya kok .Banyak mencari Referensi yang dari buku supaya kamu menguasai materi yang akan didiskusikan .Jadi Walaupun nanti ada perbedaan pendapat tidak usah khawatir ,karena Argumen kita ada dasarnya.

• Supaya Aktif dan Tambah mantap ni ada caranya, mudah-mudahan ada manfaatnya :
1. Simak baik-baik apa yang guru dan teman –teman sampaikan
2. Catat poin-poin yang ingin disampaikan bisa berupa pertanyaan atau tanggapan .Dalam diskusi pertanyaan sama berharganya dengan pendapatkarena itu menunjukan bahwa kita kita sudah mau mengerti pendapat orang lain
3. Sebelum member pendapat ,lebih bagus lagi apabila kita menyampaikan dulu ringkasan dari pembicara sebelumnya ini menunjukan bahwa kita menyimak acara diskusi dengan baik
4. Sampaikan pendapat dengan lugas .Artinya langsung ke inti masalah jangan berputar-putar ,karena membingungkan ,kalau perlu lihat catatan yang telah di buat.
5. Ketika berargumen ,Awali dengan mengambil contoh dari sumber referensi tertentuuntuk menguatakan dasar argument
6. Begitu selesai menyampaikan pendapat ,tidak ada salahnya menanyakan apabila para peserta diskusi telah jelas dengan apayang disampaikan….

Mungkin itu para remaja tips –tips untuk Aktif di kelas karena sepintar apapun orang nya kalau tidak Aktif Alias Pasif nilaunya pun tidak sesuai dengan apa yang kita harapkan

“Disiplin 4s”
Mark Spitz,bintang Olompiade tahun 1972 di Munich,Jerman,mampu membuat banyak orang berdecak kagum.Waktu itu ia berhasil memperoleh tujuh medali emas serta memecahkan tujuh rekor dunia baru dalm olahraga renang .Adakah rahasia di balik kesuksesannya ??? sekarang mari kita liat langkah-lanmgkah apa yang sudah di jalankan oleh Mark Spitz
Ketika ditanya tentang rahasia keberhasilannya Mark Spitz mengatakan “We All Love to Win,but how many people love to train?”-Kita semua menyukai kemenangan ,tetapi tidak banyak dari kita yang menyukai latihan dengan penuh kedisiplinan.semua orang melihat Mark Spitz menerima medali emas dengan penuh kekaguman .namun,adakah yang memperhatikan bagaimana Mark Spitz harus memulai latihan keras sejak pagi ,siang ,sore,bahkan malam hari dengan penuh kedisiplinan ?ternyata untuk mencapai prestasi itu Mark Spitz harus melalui latihan keras secara disiplin dari hari ke hari ,bulan demi bulan,bahkan tahun demi tahun ,Ia telah membayar terlebih dahulu kesuksesannya.Nah ,bagaimana dengan kita sekarang ini akan menjadi pertanyaan besar “Sudahkah kita membayar Kesuksesan kita dengan cara berusaha dari hari ke hari,dari minggu ke minggu,dari bulan ke bulan dan dari tahun ke tahun?????
Lantas,Apa Artinya kedisiplinan sehingga kerap menjadi bahasan penting,entah itu di rumah atau di sekolah ??? Kedisiplinan adalah sikap mental untuk melakukan hal-hal yang seharusnya dilakuakn,pada saat yang tepat dan benar-benar menghargai waktu.Meskipun pengertian disiplin sangat sederhana ,tetapi mungkin agak sulit unutk menerapkan konsep-konsep kedisiplinan itu hingga membudaya ke dalam ke hidupan mu sehari-hari.
Contohnya,kamu mungkin telah mempunyai rencana untuk menyelesaikan tugas sekolah selepas magrib,tetapi sebuah tayangan televise menarik perhatian sehingga membuatmua menunda untuk menyelesaikan tugas tersebut.Memang banyak factor yang mengurangi tingkat kedisiplinan kita Akan tetapi,kamu tudak bisa bersikap disiplin .sedikit-sedikit kamu dapat melatih diri sehingga konsep-konsep kedisiplinan itu benar-benar membudaya dalam kehidupan mu.
Cobalah menerapkan kedisiplinan sejak dini –Start with your self - Start Early - Start Small - Start Now. - Mulai dari diri sendiri – sesegera mungkin- sedikit demi sedikit-lakukan sekarang..bila kedisiplinan sudah menjadi bagian dari kesadaran atau budaya pribadimu ,berarti kamu sudah membangun dasar kehidupan yang kuat sebagai manusia prestatif,bersemangat,dan bahagia.
Meningkatkan Disiplin Diri
• Tetapkan tujuan atau target yang ingin di capai.
• Buat Urutan prioritas hal-hal yang ingin di buat
• Buat jadwal kegiatan secara tertulis ,kalau perlu tempelkan di tempat yang mudah terlihat.
• Lakukan kegiatan sesuai dengan jadwak yang sudah di buat tetapi jangan terlalu kaku .Jika perlu,kamu dapat mengubah jadwal tersebut sesuai dengan kiondisi dan situasi (SIKON)
• Burusaha unutk senantiasa disiplin dengan jadwal program kegiatan yang sudah di susun sendiri ,sekali kamu tidak disipli atau menunda kegiatan tersebut ,akan sulit untuk melakukannya.
• Ketaatan beribadah juga merupakan proses kedisiplinan yang paling utama.Contohnya Shalat lima waktu .ini merupakan bagian dari upaya melatih kedisiplinan sekaligus memperkaya hati dan jiwa kita dengan kedamaian ,percaya diri,kreativitas ,serta energy cinta kepada Illahi.
Mungkin itu saja langkh-langkah untuk meningkatkan kedisiplinan diri kita sendir mudah-mudahan ada manfaatnya dan bisa di terapkan dalam kehidupan sehari-hari.

Aktif di kelas

Sekarang bukan zamannya lagi untuk tidak Aktif di kelas alias pasif.karen asekarang sekolah memberikan penilaan terhada keikutsertaan aktif di kelas .Kalaupun nilai akademis kita bagus tapi tidak diyunjang oleh partisipasi kelas yang memadai bisa jadi nilai keseluruhan tidak akan sebaik apa yang diharapkan

Nah,sekarang coba tengok lagi apa yang membuat kita merasa berat untuk Aktif,Umumnya ,Penyebab rasa Pasif adalah Malu yang timbul karena tak terbiasa untuk mengungkapkan pendapat secara langsung.Tapi tenang aja para remaja ada solusinya kok .Banyak mencari Referensi yang dari buku supaya kamu menguasai materi yang akan didiskusikan .Jadi Walaupun nanti ada perbedaan pendapat tidak usah khawatir ,karena Argumen kita ada dasarnya.

· Supaya Aktif dan Tambah mantap ni ada caranya, mudah-mudahan ada manfaatnya :

1. Simak baik-baik apa yang guru dan teman –teman sampaikan

2.Catat poin-poin yang ingin disampaikan bisa berupa pertanyaan atau tanggapan .Dalam diskusi pertanyaan sama berharganya dengan pendapatkarena itu menunjukan bahwa kita kita sudah mau mengerti pendapat orang lain

3.Sebelum member pendapat ,lebih bagus lagi apabila kita menyampaikan dulu ringkasan dari pembicara sebelumnya ini menunjukan bahwa kita menyimak acara diskusi dengan baik

4.Sampaikan pendapat dengan lugas .Artinya langsung ke inti masalah jangan berputar-putar ,karena membingungkan ,kalau perlu lihat catatan yang telah di buat.

5.Ketika berargumen ,Awali dengan mengambil contoh dari sumber referensi tertentuuntuk menguatakan dasar argument

6.Begitu selesai menyampaikan pendapat ,tidak ada salahnya menanyakan apabila para peserta diskusi telah jelas dengan apayang disampaikan….

Mungkin itu para remaja tips –tips untuk Aktif di kelas karena sepintar apapun orang nya kalau tidak Aktif Alias Pasif nilaunya pun tidak sesuai dengan apa yang kita harapkan

“Disiplin 4s”

Mark Spitz,bintang Olompiade tahun 1972 di Munich,Jerman,mampu membuat banyak orang berdecak kagum.Waktu itu ia berhasil memperoleh tujuh medali emas serta memecahkan tujuh rekor dunia baru dalm olahraga renang .Adakah rahasia di balik kesuksesannya ??? sekarang mari kita liat langkah-lanmgkah apa yang sudah di jalankan oleh Mark Spitz

Ketika ditanya tentang rahasia keberhasilannya Mark Spitz mengatakan “We All Love to Win,but how many people love to train?”-Kita semua menyukai kemenangan ,tetapi tidak banyak dari kita yang menyukai latihan dengan penuh kedisiplinan.semua orang melihat Mark Spitz menerima medali emas dengan penuh kekaguman .namun,adakah yang memperhatikan bagaimana Mark Spitz harus memulai latihan keras sejak pagi ,siang ,sore,bahkan malam hari dengan penuh kedisiplinan ?ternyata untuk mencapai prestasi itu Mark Spitz harus melalui latihan keras secara disiplin dari hari ke hari ,bulan demi bulan,bahkan tahun demi tahun ,Ia telah membayar terlebih dahulu kesuksesannya.Nah ,bagaimana dengan kita sekarang ini akan menjadi pertanyaan besar “Sudahkah kita membayar Kesuksesan kita dengan cara berusaha dari hari ke hari,dari minggu ke minggu,dari bulan ke bulan dan dari tahun ke tahun?????

Lantas,Apa Artinya kedisiplinan sehingga kerap menjadi bahasan penting,entah itu di rumah atau di sekolah ??? Kedisiplinan adalah sikap mental untuk melakukan hal-hal yang seharusnya dilakuakn,pada saat yang tepat dan benar-benar menghargai waktu.Meskipun pengertian disiplin sangat sederhana ,tetapi mungkin agak sulit unutk menerapkan konsep-konsep kedisiplinan itu hingga membudaya ke dalam ke hidupan mu sehari-hari.

Contohnya,kamu mungkin telah mempunyai rencana untuk menyelesaikan tugas sekolah selepas magrib,tetapi sebuah tayangan televise menarik perhatian sehingga membuatmua menunda untuk menyelesaikan tugas tersebut.Memang banyak factor yang mengurangi tingkat kedisiplinan kita Akan tetapi,kamu tudak bisa bersikap disiplin .sedikit-sedikit kamu dapat melatih diri sehingga konsep-konsep kedisiplinan itu benar-benar membudaya dalam kehidupan mu.

Cobalah menerapkan kedisiplinan sejak dini –Start with your self - Start Early - Start Small - Start Now. - Mulai dari diri sendiri – sesegera mungkin- sedikit demi sedikit-lakukan sekarang..bila kedisiplinan sudah menjadi bagian dari kesadaran atau budaya pribadimu ,berarti kamu sudah membangun dasar kehidupan yang kuat sebagai manusia prestatif,bersemangat,dan bahagia.

Meningkatkan Disiplin Diri

· Tetapkan tujuan atau target yang ingin di capai.

· Buat Urutan prioritas hal-hal yang ingin di buat

· Buat jadwal kegiatan secara tertulis ,kalau perlu tempelkan di tempat yang mudah terlihat.

· Lakukan kegiatan sesuai dengan jadwak yang sudah di buat tetapi jangan terlalu kaku .Jika perlu,kamu dapat mengubah jadwal tersebut sesuai dengan kiondisi dan situasi (SIKON)

· Burusaha unutk senantiasa disiplin dengan jadwal program kegiatan yang sudah di susun sendiri ,sekali kamu tidak disipli atau menunda kegiatan tersebut ,akan sulit untuk melakukannya.

· Ketaatan beribadah juga merupakan proses kedisiplinan yang paling utama.Contohnya Shalat lima waktu .ini merupakan bagian dari upaya melatih kedisiplinan sekaligus memperkaya hati dan jiwa kita dengan kedamaian ,percaya diri,kreativitas ,serta energy cinta kepada Illahi.

Mungkin itu saja langkh-langkah untuk meningkatkan kedisiplinan diri kita sendir mudah-mudahan ada manfaatnya dan bisa di terapkan dalam kehidupan sehari-hari.



Senin, 14 Juni 2010

Ilmu

Strategi Belajar Efektif
Belajar adalah proses mengetahui bagaimana caranya membaca dan memahami data sehingga kamu bisa menggunakannya dalam kehidupan sehari-hari .
Keberhasila dalam belajar akan memunculkan kepuasaan diri dan kesuksesan
Belajar akan terasa menyenangkan apabila kamu para remaja terutamanya mengetahui bagaimana caranya???? Tenang disini ada beberapa cara nya .Belajar hanya terasa berat apabila menemui hambatan-hambatan beljar dan tidak tahu bagaimana mengatasinya.Hambatan –hambatan dalam belajar itulah yang kerap menyebabkan kamu tidak mau belajar atau tidak bisa berkonsentrasi sehingga jadi Tu- La- Lit alias telat mikir
Denagn demikian buatlah strategi belajar yang efektif yang paling sesuai untukmu agar kamu dapat mengatasi hambatan-hambatan dalam belajar tersebut.
Tip’s-Tip’s belajar yang Efektif
1. Suasana hati. Ciptakan selalu mood yang positif untuk belajar .ini bisa dilakukan untuk menentukan waktu lingkungan,dan sikap pribadimu.
2. Pemahaman.Tandai informasi bahan pelajaran yang TIDAK kamu mengerti dalam satu unit .Fokuskan pada satu Unit tersebut atau pecahkan permasalahan dalam kelompok latihan bersam teman-teman.
3. Ulang. Setelah belajar satu unit, berhentilah dan ulang bahan dari unit tersebut dengan kata-kata yang kamu buat sendiri.
4. Telaah. Kembalilah kepada unit kamu yang tidak mengerti dan PELAJARI KEMBALI metri tersebut.Lihatlah Informasi yang terkait pada Artikel ,Buku teks,dan sumber lainnya ,dan diskusikan dengan teman atau Guru
5. Kembangkan Pada langkah ini ,tanyakan 3 persoalan berikut terhadap meteri yang telah kamu pelajari:
• Andaikan saya bertemu dengan penulis materi tersebut,pertanyaan atau kritik apa yang saya ajukan???
• Bagaimana saya bisa mengaplikasiakn materi tersebut ke dalam hal yang saya sukai???
• Bagaimana saya membuat Informasi ini menjadi menarik dan mudah di fahami oleh para siswa /mahasiswa lainnya???
6.Kembangkan dan Pelajari Kembali. Pelajari kembali materi pelajaran yang sudah di pelajari.Ingatlah strategi yang telah membantumu mengerti dan mengingat informasi .jadi terapkan stratei tersebut untuk cara belajar selanjutnya..
@ oleh :terbit arif maali

 
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